PEOPLE.

The Church Is Made of PEOPLE

Let me say it again: the church is made of people.

People. Capitalize it. Underline it. Tattoo it on the inside of your eyelids if you have to, because the moment we forget it, we stop functioning like the body of Christ and start functioning like a corporation.

Here’s what I’ve noticed: churches have a tendency to drift toward a business model, and I get it. There’s a lot to manage, a lot of moving parts, and a lot of responsibility. But a machine is made of parts. People are not parts. People are human. They are messy and complicated and flawed and they will make mistakes. It’s not if, it’s when.

So what do we do when they do?

The easy thing, and I mean the easiest easy thing, is to cut them off. Somebody messes up on the worship team? Sit them down. A small group leader falls? Remove them. Someone in kids ministry is living in a way that disqualifies them from that role? It’s so much easier to just wash your hands of them and move on.

Yes, there’s accountability. Yes, there’s correction. Yes, sometimes people need to be removed from positions of leadership. That is real and necessary and I’m not minimizing it, but the response to someone’s failure cannot just be management. It has to be ministry.

It is far easier to wash your hands of someone who’s made a mess than it is to get down into that mess with them. However, easy is not what we were called to.

We know good and well that Jesus wasn’t afraid to be known as the one who sat with the broken. He wasn’t protecting his reputation when he talked to the woman at the well or ate dinner with tax collectors. He wasn’t worried about optics. He was passionate about people.

And here’s the thing. He gave us the church not so we could look perfect, but so we could help imperfect people encounter his love, his mercy, and his grace. If we have to be known for something, I would want it to be known that when someone fell, we loved them anyway. We got in the mess with them. We walked through it together.

That is the church being the church.

I haven’t always done this well, but I’m trying to do better even now because God is in the business of restoring people, so we should be as well.

There has to be a path to restoration in your ministry. Not a revolving door where anything goes, but a real, intentional, grace-filled path that says “you matter more than our image.”

Now, not everyone will take it. Some people will fall, be confronted, and decide they’d rather keep living how they’re living than align their life with the gospel. And you know what? That’s their choice. You can still love them. They can still attend. But the role changes, the access changes, and that’s okay. That’s not your failure and it’s not God’s failure. That’s just what it looks like when someone exercises their free will.

But for the ones who want to be restored? Get in there. Open the Word. Walk alongside them. Give them time and grace and truth, because that is exactly what was given to you.

Here’s the part that you can’t gloss over: you are people too. You will need grace one day. Maybe, like me, you already have.

So function like you’re surrounded by people, because you are. Brace yourself for people to need you, to disappoint you, to fall down and need a hand back up. That is not a problem with your ministry. That is ministry.

God will give you the grace to lead people well. But don’t write them off. Get in the mess. Show them what restoration looks like. Because people matter to God and they should matter to us.

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